So, you’ve got the pipes, the passion, and now you’re ready to step into the world of live music. Joining a band as a singer can be an exciting and rewarding experience, but it also comes with its own set of challenges, especially if you're new to the scene.

As a voice teacher and someone who has some experience singing in small, local bands, I want to share some practical advice from that perspective. This isn’t about making it big or becoming the next superstar, this is real-world guidance for singers stepping into their first band, whether it's a cover group at your local bar, an original project with friends, or a gigging band looking to grow.

Before you say “yes” to any band, it’s important to consider what kind of group is the right fit for you. Do you want to play classic rock covers at weddings, or are you looking to join a hard-working bar band that gigs every weekend? Are the other members on the same page when it comes to commitment, money, and musical direction? And what about the ethical side of things—like making sure you’re working with musicians who respect your time and talent?

In this post, I’ll walk you through the key factors to think about before jumping in, so you can make the best decision for your voice, your goals, and your overall experience as a musician. Let’s get into it!

Am I Ready?

This is the number one question I hear from singers who are thinking about joining a band, and my answer is always the same—just go for it. The best way to find out if you’re ready is to start auditioning. Singing in a band is a completely different experience from singing alone, and the only way to truly develop the skills you need, like blending with instruments, holding your own on stage, and managing a live set, is by doing it. That said, it helps to find bandmates who are around your skill level. If you're just starting out, joining a group of highly seasoned musicians might feel overwhelming, while working with others who are also growing can make the process more comfortable and rewarding. The key is to jump in, learn as you go, and trust that you’ll improve with experience.

Types of Bands: Which One is Right for You as a Singer?

If you’re a singer looking to join a band, one of the first things to consider is what kind of band best suits your interests and goals. Bands come in many forms, from groups playing well-known hits to those focused on original music. Understanding these different types can help you decide where to invest your time and talent.

Each type of band has its own expectations, challenges, and benefits. Some offer more opportunities for paid gigs, while others prioritize artistic freedom. Below, we’ll break down the most common band types and what singers should consider before joining one.

Cover Bands: Playing the Hits

Cover bands play well-known songs from different artists, often sticking to a specific genre like rock, pop, or funk. These bands are popular for weddings, corporate events, bars, and festivals because they provide familiar entertainment that gets audiences engaged.

For singers, cover bands can offer:

Frequent performance opportunities – Many cover bands gig regularly, which is great for building stage confidence.
A chance to develop versatility – Singing a variety of songs helps you strengthen different aspects of your voice.
Potential for paid work – Unlike original bands, cover bands often earn money through bookings.

One thing to keep in mind is that audiences expect songs to sound recognizable. While you don’t have to copy every artist exactly, you may need to adjust your vocal delivery to match the energy and feel of the original versions.

Tribute Bands: Honoring One Artist

Tribute bands focus exclusively on the music of a single artist or band. Some go all out, replicating the original act’s look, mannerisms, and stage presence, while others focus purely on recreating the sound.

For singers, tribute bands can be a fun challenge because:

They offer a built-in fanbase – People who love the original band will likely come to see you perform.
They can lead to high-paying gigs – Popular tribute acts book festivals, theaters, and even international tours.
They push you to master a specific style – While you don’t need to sound identical to the original singer, audiences expect a strong resemblance in tone and delivery.

Tribute bands require commitment, as fans and venues expect authenticity. If you love a particular artist’s music and want to immerse yourself in it, this could be a great fit.

Original Bands: Creating Your Own Music

If you’re passionate about songwriting and creative expression, an original band might be the perfect choice. These bands write, record, and perform their own music, focusing on building a unique sound and audience.

Singing in an original band comes with both opportunities and challenges:

You get to develop your own identity – No need to fit into someone else’s style; you create your own.
It’s a long-term commitment – Success requires consistent effort in songwriting, rehearsals, and promotion.
Building a following takes time – Unlike cover bands, you’ll need to actively market your music to attract listeners.

Original bands can be incredibly rewarding, but they require patience and dedication. If you’re in it for the long haul and want to create something unique, this is the path for you.

Hybrid Bands: Mixing Covers with Originals

Some bands find a balance between playing popular covers and introducing their own original music. This approach can be a great option for singers who want the best of both worlds—performing crowd-pleasers while also showcasing their own artistic identity. These bands often start by playing well-known songs to draw in audiences, then gradually introduce their originals to gauge interest and build a following.

For singers, hybrid bands offer:

A smoother transition into original music – Covering familiar songs helps attract gigs while you work on getting your own music heard.
More creative freedom – Unlike strict cover or tribute bands, you’ll have the flexibility to shape your vocal style.
A built-in audience for originals – If a crowd already enjoys your set, they’re more likely to be open to hearing your own material.

One challenge is striking the right balance, play too many covers, and audiences might tune out your originals; focus too much on originals, and it could be harder to book steady gigs. If you want to introduce original music while still keeping crowds engaged, this can be a smart path to take.

Which Type of Band is Right for You?

Choosing the right band depends on your musical goals, interests, and level of commitment. Ask yourself:

Do I want to perform music people already know, or do I want to create my own?
Am I looking for frequent gigs, or am I more focused on artistic development?
How much time and effort can I commit to rehearsals and performances?
Do I want to earn money from gigs, or is this more about passion and fun?

There’s no wrong choice, every type of band offers unique experiences. Whether you join a cover band, tribute act, original group, or a mix of both, the key is finding a band that aligns with your passion and goals.

Choosing the Right Genre for Your Band

When joining a band, picking the right genre is just as important as choosing the right bandmates. Your connection to the music will directly impact your enjoyment, growth, and longevity in the group. However, finding the right genre isn’t always as simple as picking your favorite one to listen to. There are several factors to consider—what you love to hear, what you love to sing, how you like to perform, and even what you’re best at writing.

The Music You Love to Listen To

Your personal taste in music naturally influences your instincts as a performer. If you’re drawn to atmospheric shoegaze, intricate jazz, or heavy metal, chances are those elements will show up in your phrasing, tone, and delivery. However, just because you love listening to a genre doesn’t mean it’s the best fit for you as a performer. Some styles might inspire you but not feel natural to sing, so it’s worth experimenting before committing.

The Songs You Love to Sing

You might have a similar experience, maybe you're a huge fan of punk or metal but feel most comfortable singing jazz or folk. Or perhaps you admire powerhouse vocalists in pop and rock but naturally lean toward a softer, more intimate style. The good news is that you’re not limited to what "fits" your voice right now. With vocal technique, you can train your voice to develop the skills needed for different genres. If you want to add grit for rock or increase agility for R&B, it’s all possible with practice. Your voice is adaptable, so don’t feel boxed in, choose the style that excites you the most!

The Way You Like to Perform

Singing isn’t just about sound, it’s also about presence and energy. If you thrive on high-energy performances, jumping and dancing on stage, you might prefer genres like funk, pop, punk, or rock, even if your personal playlists are full of chill indie or electronic music. Alternatively, if you love creating an intimate connection with the audience, you might feel more at home in acoustic, jazz, or folk settings. Think about what excites you most about being on stage and choose a genre that aligns with that.

The Style You’re Best at Writing

If you plan to contribute original songs, your songwriting strengths should also influence your genre choice. Some singers naturally write catchy pop hooks, while others gravitate toward introspective folk lyrics or complex jazz melodies. Even if you love performing in a specific style, you might find that your original music leans toward a different one. Paying attention to what comes naturally when you write can help you find a genre where you can truly shine.

Finding the Balance

Ultimately, the best genre for you as a singer is where all these elements intersect. The ideal situation is finding a style that excites you, allows you to express yourself authentically, and keeps you engaged in the long run. Don’t be afraid to experiment. Join jam sessions, try different bands, and step outside your comfort zone. Since your voice is flexible and can be trained for different styles, you’re never limited to just one genre. Sometimes, the perfect fit for you isn’t the one you expected!

Working Together

Musical Skill Levels

When joining a band, it’s important to consider whether everyone is at a similar level musically. If there’s a big gap in skill, it can create frustration on both sides. More experienced musicians might feel held back if they have to slow down rehearsals to help others catch up, while less experienced members might feel overwhelmed or pressured to keep up. That doesn’t mean you all have to be identical in ability—different strengths can complement each other—but you should be able to rehearse efficiently and grow together as a band. If there’s a big difference in skill levels, it’s helpful to have open conversations about expectations and practice habits to keep things balanced and fair for everyone.

Friends or Colleagues

One of the biggest questions when joining a band is whether you want to work with friends or treat it more like a professional collaboration. Some bands are built on lifelong friendships, while others function more like a business partnership. Both approaches can work, but they come with different challenges.

Playing with friends can be great because you already have trust and chemistry, but it can also make it harder to address conflicts, no one wants to risk ruining a friendship over band disagreements. On the other hand, treating bandmates as colleagues makes it easier to set boundaries and make tough decisions, but it may take longer to build trust and a strong creative connection. Finding the right balance between friendship and professionalism is key to keeping things running smoothly.

Ethical Considerations

A band works best when its members share similar morals and values. If you’re constantly having to argue about what is or isn’t acceptable, it can create tension and make the experience frustrating. I learned this firsthand when I was asked to sing a song that sexualized a minor. As soon as I saw the lyrics, I knew I wasn’t comfortable performing it. I told the band members that I wouldn’t sing it for ethical reasons, and while they respected my decision, it made me realize how important it is to be in a band where these kinds of conversations don’t have to be endless debates. When your morals align, there’s less conflict, and you can focus on making music rather than justifying your boundaries.

As a singer, it’s especially important to consider the message you’re putting out. Whether you write the lyrics or not, the audience will associate the words with you more than with the guitarist or drummer. If you’re singing about a certain topic, people will assume you support it. That’s why it’s crucial to be mindful of the songs you perform and the image you project. If something doesn’t sit right with you, it’s okay to say no. A band should respect each member’s values, and if they don’t, it might not be the right fit.

Alcohol Consumption

Drinking is common in many music scenes, especially at gigs or rehearsals, but as a singer, you have to be especially mindful of how alcohol affects your voice. Alcohol dehydrates the vocal cords, making it harder to sing with control and clarity. On top of that, alcohol can worsen gastric reflux, which is a serious concern for vocalists. Acid reflux can irritate the vocal cords and cause hoarseness, making it harder to hit notes cleanly or maintain vocal stamina over time. If you’re prone to reflux, drinking, especially before singing, can significantly impact your performance.

For the rest of the band, the effects of alcohol might not be as directly noticeable. A guitarist, bassist, or drummer might still be able to play well even after a few drinks, whereas a singer doesn’t have that luxury. Your body is your instrument. You need to consider whether you’re comfortable with alcohol consumption within the band and where you personally draw the line.

I once asked a friend who is a professional guitarist about alcohol in the music scene, and he had an interesting perspective. He told me that many musicians drink a lot, and while it’s not ideal, some of them can still perform at a high level. His take was that if a musician is truly amazing, you might tolerate their drinking habits. But if they’re not that great and they drink heavily, it’s better to let them go.

Ultimately, it’s up to each band to decide their stance on alcohol. Some musicians can handle a few drinks without it impacting their work, while others might struggle with focus, consistency, or professionalism. It’s a good idea to have an open conversation with your bandmates about expectations, whether drinking before or during rehearsals and gigs is acceptable and how to handle any issues that might arise. As a vocalist, you may also need to set your own personal boundaries, even if the rest of the band drinks. Being on the same page can prevent tension and ensure that performances remain strong.

One Leader or Group Decisions?

Some bands operate with a clear leader, often the main songwriter or the most experienced member, while others prefer a more democratic approach. Both structures can work, but it’s important to know what you’re signing up for.

If the band has a leader, they might make final decisions about setlists, songwriting, or gig bookings. This can be efficient but may feel restrictive if you want more creative input. If the band makes decisions as a group, it can be more collaborative but also slower and prone to disagreements.

It’s helpful to establish decision-making rules early on. Are major decisions voted on? Does each member have equal input? Understanding this dynamic will help prevent frustration down the line.

I used to be in a band where my input was completely ignored, the leader made all the decisions without consulting anyone else. It quickly became frustrating because, in my view, if I don’t get a say in anything, then I’m not a true band member, I’m an employee. And if that’s the case, I should be paid accordingly. I think it’s unfair to be bossed around while singing in a band for little or no pay. If a band expects you to follow orders without discussion, make sure you’re comfortable with that dynamic before committing.

Similar Goals

Not every musician has the same vision for their band. Some people want to play gigs every weekend and turn music into a full-time career, while others just want to have fun and perform occasionally. If your goals don’t align with the rest of the band, conflicts can arise.

Before committing, ask yourself (and your bandmates):

Are we aiming for casual gigs, or do we want to tour and record professionally?
How often are we willing to rehearse and perform?
Is this a hobby, or do we want to make money from it?

Being clear about your expectations can prevent misunderstandings and ensure that everyone is moving in the same direction.

Work Ethic

Talent is important, but work ethic matters just as much. A band is only as strong as its members. If one person is consistently late to rehearsals, doesn’t learn their parts, or cancels gigs last minute, it can hold everyone back.

Having a strong work ethic means:

Being prepared for rehearsals
Communicating openly about availability
Respecting each other’s time
Following through on commitments

No matter how skilled a musician is, a lack of reliability and effort can make them difficult to work with. A band that shares a strong work ethic will grow faster, perform better, and have a much better chance at success.

Going Solo

Singer Songwriter voice lessons — *Image by @soundtrap*

Being in a band can be an amazing experience, but it’s not for everyone. The collaboration, compromise, and shared creative process can be fulfilling, but it also comes with challenges: Conflicts over decision-making, differences in work ethic, or mismatched musical visions. Some people thrive in a band environment, while others find it limiting or frustrating.

Personally, I’m not sure if I would join a band again. I tend to be quite opinionated, and finding a group of musicians who share the same vision and values can be difficult. I’ve experienced situations where my input wasn’t considered, and that’s something I wouldn’t want to go through again. If I ever join another band, it would have to be one where my voice, both literally and figuratively, is valued.

Going solo is always an option. As a solo artist, you have full control over your music, your image, and your career decisions. You don’t have to compromise on creative direction or deal with band politics. However, it also means carrying all the responsibilities yourself: booking gigs, handling promotions, and managing all aspects of your performances. It can be freeing but also overwhelming.

At the end of the day, the most important thing is to find what works for you. Whether that means joining a band, leading your own project, or going solo, the key is to make music in a way that feels fulfilling and sustainable. If you find a band that truly aligns with your values and artistic vision, it can be an incredible experience. But if not, there’s no shame in carving your own path.

Nina Standaert
Voice Teacher Nina

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